10/30/2026
Giving turns into entitlement. Helping people turns into your responsibility. People will watch you carry the weight of a business and still add their weight and before you realize you paying 10 people rent, taking care of 6 children, buying cars, paying light bills and they ain’t did nothing! Didn’t offer to help sweep a floor because that’s slave work and they not a slave. People will take advantage of you when you are busy and got a lot on your plate these past 30 days I have had time to rest and evaluate the people around me. I paid a person rent up 3 months and they ended up homeless after 90 days of free rent & the same person asked me to invest money in them and put them on? I might as well throw money in the trash. The amount of text messages i have of people asking or demanding money without speaking or asking how I’m doing is crazy’! I have text messages saying! My lights are being cut off? Can you pay my rent? Can you help me get a car? Can I borrow some money and NONE OF THEM ASK ME HOW IM DOING? No greeting just begging! One thing I have learned people don’t want help they want you to take care of them. God looks out for me when I don’t look out for myself! I refuse to go against God and stop my blessings by giving to people that only care about what I can do! I SERIOUSLY CANNOT REMEMBER THE LAST TIME SOMEONE ASKED ME ABOUT ME! Ask how I was doing, feeling, how my day going? But I can remember the last time someone ask for help/money. God never again. I CUT THE ACCESS OFF! YOU CANT ASK NO ACCESS! The only weight I’m carrying is mine! As women In our 50s, we lose bone mass, I was not put on this planet to carry the weight of the world.