04/20/2026
I (21M) & my fiancΓ© (29F) just had a baby (girl). Huge drama. Two months ago, she confessed she lied about the baby's gender. I was furious. She knew I wanted a boy & she let me believe it for a month. It spiraled. I had a crucial investor meeting for my startup the day she went into labor. My MIL demanded I cancel. I π refused. My fiancΓ© exploded, saying my startup (currently $0 income) was ruining us. She's working part-time due to stress from our fights & claims I destroyed our family. She went nuclear on me, but I'm frustrated with the amount of money she spent on baby blue items, only to just tell me after the fact that it was a girl. Now she is trying to guilt trip me for not π being there. This is where things go south. She then said the most hurtful thing I have ever heard, that since I like to play with toys, I am probably happy π that I am now the father of a 'little doll' to play with. My heart sank. AITA? [Full Story + π Community Vote] β¬οΈ