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01/12/2022

01/12/2022

She’s a strong woman with a intense personality..and she makes no apologies for who and what she is.
All the men gush about how amazing she is, how they admire her strength and pursue her with relentless intent..
But the thing is, most of them just like the idea of her- the real and authentic woman that she is will always be too much for most of those chasing her..
They don’t understand the kind of woman she truly is and what it takes to love a person like her.
Her needs and desires are simple enough- love and be loved, respect and loyalty..
Ideals that are much more than just words to her..they are part of her values.
She’s not one to be taken lightly or dismissed easily, for she goes after what she wants and doesn’t know what defeat is.
The weaker men fancy themselves to be something other than what they truly are- for it takes a strong man to run with this lioness..
And none of them fit that bill, though they don’t seem to realize it.
She’s not content with those of lackluster character or ordinary passion.
She needs more- no, she craves the one who can ignite her heart and connect with her soul..
And that’s no easy task given the wall she has built around her inner depths to protect herself.
Many have tried and all have failed, because in her world, she’s not going to settle, wait or be an option.
She demands the best of those who stay in her life, just as she gives..
All of her heart, every bit of her soul and loyalty that knows no end.
The ones that come along seeking temporary satisfaction and superficial desire don’t ever get a chance ..she knows the look and feel of a coyote in wolf’s clothing.
She carries herself with dignity, class and courage and expects the same from any that would attempt to love her.
They’ll push her away, saying she’s overbearing, too demanding or too much..
And yes, she’ll gladly tell anyone that’s she’s too much for those who aren’t strong enough to run with her.
She’ll never be happy with just anyone, because she doesn’t actually need anyone.
She loves herself completely and values her time and independence..
So, if someone wants to step up and vie for her affection, they’d better be prepared to be patient, true and genuine, for her world isn’t one that tolerates fake or insincere.
She’s been down that road too many times before and burned that bridge so that she’d never go back.
She’s always trusted the way things worked- and if love was meant for her, it would show up when the time is right..not a minute before.
So, she made sure that the weaker men with false intentions could save their time, energy and shallow requests..
She wasn’t stopping for a distraction that would never earn her heart.
Maybe she was tough, she was definitely strong..but she would always be one of a kind..
And until someone came to change her mind, she’d keep living her best life.
Strong, beautiful and free.
|Ravenwolf

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28/11/2022

Stupid and deeply regrettable things.... (Ife na ebute mmadu ili Alili) will not ever happen to the one who knows his or her Chi.

Your Chi, otherwise known in religion as your guardian angel, does not move behind one as taught by religion. In our Igbo cosmology, your Chi always moves ahead of you.

Many people so easily dismiss the lordship of Chi Onye as tales. We are not up for arguments for so many vital things are dismissed as tales by the ofeke.

But when you are humble enough to align with your Chi, you will discover how easy it will be for you to walk through hard surfaces.

Obulu na Chi Mmadu adiro na izu, ife adi eme mmadu.

28/11/2022

KNOW YOUR STRENGTH AND WEAKNESSES

The other side of unfair advantage is that you have to know what you're not good at.

For instance, Albert Einstein knew and accepted that he was not a good experimental physicist. At a point in his life, he came to the resolution that he would never work in a lab that required him to do experiments. He would focus on theoretical physics.

The effect of this was that by knowing what he was not good at, he avoided it. This gave him free time to focus on what he was good at. It was in this area that he made his landmark theories. Today Einstein is remembered as the face of genius. He's remembered as the face of science itself. But all this happened because he knew what he was not good at, and he knew what he was good at. He avoided his weakness and doubled down on his strength. The result is theories that changed the world completely.

Another example of to see the effect of Unfair Advantage is Thomas Edison. Thomas Edison was a brilliant, persistent inventor. He could persevere at inventions until he found a good thing that he could make use of. Edison was responsible for so many inventions that had a big impact on the world. And they still do to date. But there's one part of his life that is not mentioned. He was almost always broke. He was almost bankrupt several times. Edison was a born inventor, but as a businessman, he was a failure. He just did not know how to run a business, and he would not accept that. He refused to outsource the business side of his operations. He insisted on running it all. This put him in trouble so many times. He seemed to be constantly looking for a new business partner, for he had failed the previous one. Edison knew his unfair advantage, and he knew his weakness, but he refused to accept it, and it was killing him. In fact, it could have ruined him until he got introduced to a guy who knew his unfair advantage. JP Morgan was the man who would save Thomas Edison from his destructive business steps. In a partnership with Thomas Edison, General Electric would be formed, relieving Edison from financial worries at the tail end of his life. Edison was a great inventor, but he had no advantage in terms of finance.

Know your Unfair Advantage and know your weakness. Double down on your advantage. Work on your weaknesses or outsource them.

26/11/2022

12/11/2022

Profound 👇🏿
One day a man slaughtered a fat bull and roasted it well, afterwards he told his brother :

" GO OUT AND INVITE OUR FRIENDS AND NEIGHBORS TO COME EAT THE BEEF WITH US."

The brother went out and shouted :
" OH PEOPLE HELP! HELP!!
A FIRE IS CONSUMING OUR HOME!!!"

Soon people came out of their homes but some pretended they didn't hear anything. Those who entered the house found themselves in front of a feast where they ate and drank until they were satsfied.
Later the man turned amazed to his brother, and asked him :

" BUT THOSE WHOM YOU INVITED, I DON'T KNOW THEM NOR HAVE SEEN THEM BEFORE. SO WHERE ARE OUR FRIENDS AND NEIGHBORS WHOM I ASKED YOU TO CALL?"

The brother replied :
" THESE ARE OUR FRIENDS, THE ONES WHO CAME OUT OF THEIR HOMES TO RESCUE US TO PUT OUT THE FIRE IN OUR HOUSE. THEY DIDN'T EVEN EXPECT TO COME FIND FOOD."

LESSON:
Know that those who are only with you when they have a need and ignore you when you need them are not worthy to be considered your friends. LET'S BE OUR BROTHER'S KEEPER IN SPIRIT AND IN DEED.

19/10/2022

“Be a loner. That gives you time to wonder, to search for the truth. Have holy curiosity. Make your life worth living.”
~ Albert Einstein

When we are feeling alone, sometimes we take people into our life to simply fill a void - and this can be dangerous. And while they seem to soothe the ache of loneliness on the surface, deep down we know it’s not right then we wonder why we are still empty.
Trying to create a relationship when we are low will only bring more pain; it exposes itself in another form. We need to heal, be with ourselves, have holy curiosity first so we don’t bring our baggage forward - and most importantly we should not use other people as a stopgap for our inner pain.
-debbie lynn

Art - Unknown

19/10/2022

Top 10 Lesson learned from rom book -The Magic of Thinking Big

1. Believe You Can Succeed And You Will
When you have an “I-can-do-it” attitude, the how-to-do-it traits develops in your mind. Believing that you WILL succeed is the one of the basic and essential traits of successful people.

Schwartz says that it is great to admire and respect the leader; study and observe them. However do not worship them. Aim to be better than them.

How you see yourself, is how others see you.

Think success, not failure. Remind yourself regularly that you are better than you think you are. Believe Big. The size of your success is determined by the size of your belief.

2. Stop Making Excuses
The common excuses people make are;

Age: I’m too young/old
Health: I’m not well
Intelligence: I’m not smart enough
Luck: I’m not lucky enough
When it comes to your health be genuinely grateful about your health, it is better to wear out then rust out.

We sometimes underestimate our own brain power, and overestimate others. Don’t. The ability to think is much greater than the ability to memorize facts.

Eliminate the habit of making excuses; see reasons why you can succeed. The right attitude and one arm will beat the wrong attitude and two arms every time.
3. Build Confidence & Destroy Fear
Action cures fear. Indecision, delays on the other hand, feed fear. You should deposit only positive thoughts into your memory.

4. Think & Dream Creatively
Big people monopolise listening. Small people monopolise talking. Top leaders spend more time requesting advice than they do in giving it.

5. You Are What You Think You Are
As a leader the way you think towards your job determines how those around you think towards their jobs. Look important.

Think your work is important. Use the technique of “selling-yourself-to yourself”.
6. Manage Your Environments
The company you surround yourself with will surely have an impact on your success. It is up to you to surround yourself with people who uplift you and whose presence calls forth your best.

Analyse your crew, filter out the negativity, and dedicate time to relationships. Remember -people who tell you that it cannot be done are usually unsuccessful people.

7. Make Your Attitudes Your Allies
Attitudes are mirrors of the mind, they reflect thinking. When our attitude is right, our abilities reach a maximum of effectiveness and good results inevitably follow.

Grow three attitudes:

1. The attitude of “I’m activated”
Results come in proportion to enthusiasm invested. Dig in deeper when you find yourself disinterested in something, learn more about it. This sets off enthusiasm.

Always try to have energy; your smile, your handshake, talk and walk. Act alive. Always broadcast good news. No one will ever accomplish anything positive telling bad news.

2. The attitude of “You are important”
People do more for you when you make them feel important. When you help others feel important, you help yourself feel important too.

Practice appreciation.
Practice calling people by their names.
Don’t hog the glory, invest it instead.

3. The attitude of “Service first”
Put service first and money takes care of itself. Give people more than they expect to get.

8. Think Right Towards People
Success depends on the support of other people. The only hurdle between you and what you want to be is the support from others. A person is not pulled up to a higher level job, they are rather lifted up.

It is a mark of real leadership to take the lead in getting to know people. The person who does the most talking and the person who is the most successful are rarely the same person.

9. Turn Defeat Into Victory
Study your setbacks to pave your way to success. Have the courage to be your own constructive critic, stop blaming luck. Blend persistence with experimentation and remember – there is a good side in every situation.

10. Think Like A Leader
Achieving high-level success requires the support and the cooperation of others. Schwartz gave various principles on leadership.

Trade minds with the people you want to influence, try to understand them.

“Be-Human” in dealing with others , show that you put others before yourself. Think progress, believe in progress, and push for progress. Take time out to confer with yourself.

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