Toba Kayode

09/05/2024

Buying a house? Close your mouth. 🙊
Buying a new car? Close your mouth. 🙊
Getting married? Close your mouth. 🙊
Going on a holiday? Close your mouth. 🙊
Going to do a course? Close your mouth. 🙊
Got promoted? Close your mouth. 🙊

99% of the time the reason that our dreams/visions don't come true when they are supposed to, is because we open our mouth too soon to the wrong people at the wrong time.

We were wrong to share our projects/successes with people who claim to be "friends". The envy and the low key jealousy is enough for people to feed off of and tear down what COULD HAVE BEEN, before it even happens, so... Close your mouth!!! 🙊

The majority of your "friends", want to see you do well but Never better than them!!

And just a reminder! Even family members have a hidden envy!!!
But, they can't stop what God has for you!

09/05/2024

*Ma********on*

Ma********on addiction, also known as compulsive ma********on or s*xual addiction, is a condition where an individual engages in excessive and compulsive ma********on, often to the point where it interferes with their daily life, relationships, and overall well-being.

Signs of ma********on addiction may include:

1. *Compulsive behavior:* Feeling an intense urge or need to ma******te, even if it's not desired.
2. *Loss of control:* Ma********ng more frequently or for longer periods than intended.
3. *Withdrawal:* Experiencing irritability, anxiety, or restlessness when unable to ma******te.
4. *Tolerance:* Needing to ma******te more frequently or intensely to achieve the same pleasure.
5. *Neglect of responsibilities:* Ignoring work, school, or personal responsibilities due to ma********on.
6. *Continued despite negative consequences:* Continuing to ma******te despite physical or emotional harm.
7. *Secrecy:* Hiding ma********on habits from others.
8. *Escape from emotions:* Using ma********on as a coping mechanism for stress, anxiety, or other emotions.

If you or someone you know is struggling with ma********on addiction, it's essential to seek professional help from a mental health expert or a certified s*x therapist.

*Treatment options may include:*

1. Cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT)
2. Support groups (e.g., S*x Addicts Anonymous)
3. Accountability software or apps
4. Healthy coping mechanisms and stress management techniques
5. Addressing underlying issues (e.g., trauma, depression)

Remember, seeking help is a sign of strength, and recovery is possible👌.

Trinity medical

08/05/2024

LIFE IS A SCHOOL: Here's a group photograph taken in 1958 in Harlem, USA. The same picture with the same people standing where they stood in 1958 was repeated in 1996.
Most of the people had passed on. Their spaces were therefore vacant.
Here are some moral lessons from these two pictures: (1) Life is temporary. Your creator can call you back home any time. (2) The position you occupy today is also not permanent. You will vacate it one day. (3) There are no room for hatred and greed in the school of life. May we learn to appreciate and love one another. (4) In 50 years' time, most of us would have passed on leaving behind all we have acquired. Life is too short for all the hatred and greed around. Think about this, and let's love and appreciate ourselves.
Always remember that your life is a school in which you learn moral lessons everyday. This is why it's good if we do something while we are still together. Our togetherness won't be forever, but whatever we do together will last forever.

08/05/2024

*SOME OF THE THINGS THAT ENHANCE INTIMACY IN MARRIAGE.*

*SLEEPING TOGETHER :*
Sleeping together is a must for every married couple.

It doesn't matter if you have 50 rooms in your house, it doesn't matter if your children have a room for themselves, but it is very important that the couple sleeps on the same bed in the same room.

The wife can have her own room where she keeps most of her belonging, female friends and family can sleep in wife's room whenever they pay a visit.

Many couple sleep together only when they want to make love, and after having s*x, they both go to their separate rooms. This habit is not good enough.

Don't sleep together only when you want to have s*x.

When couple sleep together, they gist, talk, romance each other, all this thing rekindled love and enhance intimacy between husband and wife.

Quarrel and pending unresolved matters can easily be attended to and resolved amicably when on the bed together.

Body contact of a couple is very important, everything is not about s*x, when you sleep together you create awareness and bond.

Note this, when a couple sleeps in separate rooms, they can both fall into temptation because there will be freedom to relate with the opposite s*x which can lead to adultery.

*EATING TOGETHER :*
Eating together is another thing that can bring intimacy between husband and wife.

Eat together at least once in a day.

If possible eat together on the same plate, if not, eat at the same time.

Eating together as a family gives you a sense of belonging.

Wife, if your husband is likely to return very late at night from work, you can take light food to suppress hunger till he comes back. Make sure you eat together at least once a day.

*BATHING TOGETHER :*
Bating together is fun.

Bathing together is romantic.

Married couples should cultivate the habit of bathing together. This should be done regularly most especially at night when the children are asleep.

*GOOD COMMUNICATION :*
Communication is one of the vital ingredients of a successful marriage.

Good communication is healthy for your marriage.

There is power in communication as it energized the couple and also binds them together as one. Don't toy or failed to have good communication together often. By this, it shows you are both committed and your relationship is still alive functioning. Communication is what takes your relationship to the next level. Any marriage that lost its communication lost its breath.

*DATING :*
Dating is not limited to singles alone. Married couples should find time to go on a date too.

You can fix a day out of your busy schedule to go out on a date.

This type of dating does not involve children, you go out with your spouse and have fun.

Going out on a date often can strengthen your love and your intimacy with your spouse.

*PLAY TOGETHER :*
You need to see your spouse as your best friend, feel free to relate and play together.

Don't operate like Boss and employee.

You need to see yourself as one and as a playmate.

Don't be too serious to the point of not leaving a room to play together.

Watch movies together, read the word of God together, share ideas together, play games together...

*PRAY TOGETHER :*
Couples that pray together stay together. When you hold hands and pray, you connect with your spouse spiritually and physically.

When you pray together, you speak with one voice, you agree together spiritually.

Praying together regularly can do signs and wonders in your marriage.

Vigils, scripture readings, rendering choruses are part of your Prayer Offering

Our Marriage is Blessed.

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08/05/2024

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08/05/2024

_*Every man should know that a woman is not beautiful by the way she looks, walks, or wears her hair. Beauty isn’t always on the outside. it's inside. You need to look beyond a woman’s curves and complexion to discover her real beauty.*_

*_A woman is beautiful in the way she speaks her mind, in the way she touches your heart with her warmth and tenderness and in the ways she mends and heals broken hearts with her unconditional love and compassion._*

_*When a woman is loved, you can discover her beauty in the sparkle of her eyes and the radiance of her soul. A woman’s greatest beauty lies in her whole hearted smile when she feels loved to the core.*_

* &MarriageWhatsAppPage*

08/05/2024

*5 WAYS TO KNOW THAT A GUY IS REALLY SERIOUS FOR MARRIAGE:*

*About a week ago, a lady approached me and asked me how she would know that a guy is really serious for marriage*

*She said that a guy is coming for her, and she is worried if the guy is serious or one of those hit and run guys. So, I told her some things or rather how she would know that a guy is really serious for marriage and not one of those s*x predators or time wasters guys.*

*Maybe as a lady, you are in this kind of situation. You are in a relationship with a guy, but you are not sure if this guy is really serious for marriage or has come to waste your time and drive away potential life partners.*

*This article is for you. In this article, what I intend to do is to show you how you can spot a guy who is serious about marriage and wants to walk down the aisle with you. You really need to take this seriously because your time, prime, resources, and potential life partners are at stake.*

*One wrong guy in a relationship with you will waste your time and resources and drive away or block other guys that really want to settle down with you. So, how will you know that guy who's promising you heaven and is serious for marriage?*

_1. He will introduce you to important people in his life If a guy is serious with you, he will waste no time in introducing you to people that matter to him, his pastor, mentors, family, colleagues, friends etc._

_*You have being dating a guy for some time now, say 1 year or 2 years and you don't know who his parents are, you don't know any of his siblings, colleagues or friends, and whenever you bring up the issue, he will change the topic, Aunty be careful, na express you dey go!*_

2. _He will also want to meet important people in your life. A guy who is serious for marriage will not only introduce you to important people in his life but will also try to meet important people in your own life so as to make things official and formal._

_*When you are in a relationship with a guy that's hide and seeks with you, whenever you bring up the issue of him coming to meet your parents,*_

_*He divert the conversation or run off, then you should know that he isn't serious and you shouldn't waste your time with a guy that for a year or 2 years he has refused to meet your parents or important people in your life. Don't do that.*_

_3. He will stay_
_For many guys, their number one aim for entering into a relationship is to have s*x. Some of them will tell you, "If you love me, prove it."_

_*Some of them once you tell them that there will be nothing like s*x until after marriage, they will zoom off without looking back. Some of them will threaten you that if you don't have s*x with them, they will break up with you and all that.*_

_*But when you tell a guy that there will be nothing like s*x until after marriage and he stays, he doesn't disturb you about s*x, and he doesn't threaten to leave if you should fail to give him s*x, that may be a sign that he is serious about getting married to you.*_

_*As a lady, one thing you need to know is that s*x doesn't keep a man. If a man doesn't want to stay with you, give him all s*x styles in the world, doggy style, hossy style, scorpion style, cat style, etc., he will not stay. A guy that wants you will stay with or without s*x.*_

_4. He will include you in his plans and major decisions. When a guy begins to include you in plans and major decisions in life, you should know that he is seeing you in his future._

_*But when you are with a guy that hides things from you, he never tells you his next move or actions or his whereabouts, he just shows up and disappears anytime he wants, that's guy that is not seeing you in his future.*_

_*A man wants to marry a woman who will be useful in his future, so when a guy includes you in his plans and decisions, you should think that he's considering you useful to his future.*_

_*We don't go about sharing our plans with anyone who cares to listen but with those we consider important to use. The point is, when a guy includes you in his plans and decisions, he is seeing the future with you.*_

_5. Subject everything to prayers_
_Prayer remains the master key. So, for your time not to be wasted, for you not to chase away potential life partners, for your heart not to be broken, subject everything to God prayers._

_*Ask, and it shall be given you; seek, and ye shall find; knock, and it shall be opened unto you:(Matthew 7:7 KJV) The secret things belong unto the Lord our God: but those things which are revealed belong unto us and to our children for ever, that we may do all the words of this law.*_

_*(Deuteronomy 29:29 KJV) You are in a relationship with a guy and you are not sure if this guy is God's will or even serious for marriage talk less of being God's will, you have some prayers to do. You shall not miss it in marriage!*_

* &MarriageWhatsAppPage*

08/05/2024