21/05/2026
MARRIAGE STRATEGIES
Be strategic in life because not all glitars shines & know your choice you make in life are what you admires,beauty is not a pretty face non skin color or the possessions some one acquired but beauty is your inner being,your inner being means your attitude or how you're trained from your matrimonial homes.
Today we youths always follow outer beauty which is skin color,pretty face, & possessions the person has, but I want you to know when you follow those things in your relationship you're the most stupid animal on earth,why?
Because you may end up in marrying a man as a woman or a woman as a man.
*What's happiness in marriage?
Happiness in marriage is the respect the two couples shows to each other & ideals they share together,today we men want rich women & the women also want rich men but not who the person's or their attitude.
*Who is a marriage material?
A marriage material is someone who doesn't follow possessions his or her partner acquired,who doesn't discuss his relationship issues with his or her peers, someone who always want the well being of his or her partner & someone who always makes his or her partner happy.
*Why do youths of today like pretty face or someone with possession without checking who the person is or his or her attitude?
Youths of today like fansionable things, something that shines, easy access or always rashed in relationship because some just want to point figures at those pretty faces as their partners or follow the possession the person acquired because the wanted to live a luxury lifes without themselves working hard to acquire or to achieve anything by their own efforts. They rather forget to study each other for sometime before jamping into marriage because they thought possession & pretty face are what it takes to marry.
*Why is it important to study someone you're admiring for sometime before rendering your proposal to him or her?
Know through studying him or her you'll know certain things that he or she won't tell you & know he or she can't fake or hide his real personality from you forever but he or she can do so for sometime but definitely he'll show his or her true colour. Know in every beginning of every relationship is sweet & admirable to both partners because they all pretend to be what they're not.
*What make you stay in your marriages in peace or without running away from your marriages?
1)Respecting your partner no matter who he or she is.
2) Being intelligent enough to keep the challenges you are encountering in your marriage between you & your partner.
3) Inviting peers into your Marital homes too much is prohibited because they may advise you wrongly.
4) You always have to beer in mind you don't compare your marriage to that of anyone because some may deceive you false about their relationship matters.
5)You don't compare the handsomeness or how beautiful you partner's to any other guy or ladies out there,always let him or her be the best in your heart & only you can see that beauty or handsomeness out of him or her.
6)You always have to check him or her dressing before he storms out there & you the one going out too must accept what he or she says,if no change this dressing you've to.
7) You don't follow your husband for chop money whiles he's out there with his peer or you don't tell you peers the amount he gives you for a day,a week or a month.
8) You always have to be proud of your partner while projecting him or her on your status in you social Media handle because that makes others admires your relationship.
10)You don't insult you partner infront of the children,your peers,your in laws or report him or her to them for it is a civilized attitude because no one must know what's going on between both of you,please when necessary keep a calm heart when you both get to your bedroom lock the door & confront him or her about what he or she did. Remember there he or she hears you better than in your living or sitting rooms.