Adamawa happenings, Yola (2026)

22/05/2024

Please ma help me post and hide my ID. I have a man that wants to marry me, he is rich but honestly his pe*nis is nothing to write home about. It is so small, even when he goes into me, I hardly notice he is inside me, it's just like a biro, very thin. He is very rich, and we'll to do. Honestly I don't think I can stay with him just for the money. I complained to my friend, and she said I should marry him and keep a side guy who can be warming me up s3xually. Another of my friend advised me to marry him and be using s3x toys to help myself. He has proposed, I accepted but the s3x part is not considerable at all. His pe*nis is not even nothing to a write home about. I love s3x, honestly his thing is not even what I can manage, we have tried all the s3x positions but yet I feel nothing inside me. He is 39 years and I am 29 years. Pls what should I do?

08/05/2024

Hide my Id please ma. I have been following your posts. I also need advice. I have my daughter whom I gave birth to when I was in SS3 and that was 2010 and the father to the kid denied the baby at the time. I told him that I was pregnant and even when I called his mother she said that "am not ready to be called a Grandma, if possible ab0rt or else never call us again coz it is going to bring sh@me to the family" coz at that time we both were just about to finish SS3 and that was 2009. So years have passed and the man is unable to get a baby. I hear he got an acc!dent and has some complications so he can't make someone pregnant. Now they are disturbing me and my family because they want to take the child so that she can be taking care of him and they are willing to do everything for her. But me am not willing to even tell my kid that her father exists coz am able to do everything for her. And I think they are not wanting the kid coz they love her but becoz he has failed to have one. But what is disturbing me most my parents are saying that I should show my kid her father just to know him but I feel am not in position to do so. What should I do my baby is now 14yrs and she is in SS1. Should I really show her to them or not?

Thanks I will be following...

06/05/2024

Dear ma hide my id please

Am a 24-year old girl based in one of the big cities in East Africa. Just to go straight to the point, i cheated on my bf because he is not circumcised and honestly i don't like it.

He is a nice guy and he loves me a lot but eeeeeh but when its time for sxx it is not fun because the sight of it is irritating especially the fo****in when we are doing the things. I'm a wild person when it comes to the bedroom. And it smells bad too peh, after sxx ndimachita kuona kuchedwa kuti ndikasambe.

I have been wanting to tell him to get circumcised but I don’t know how to tell him because I feel like he will feel bad about it eish. And he may not want to do it because of the pains involved. Please I need advice

06/05/2024

Hi admin, I am asking for your favour. Please post for me and Hide my identity.
I am a married woman living in Adamawa state. I need you people to help me with your understanding of this problem.

I have a good friend of mine who is not yet married and I am married like I said. This friend of mine sometimes comes to visit and I also visit her sometimes. She has a fair complextion, big a$$ and beautiful. To be honest she's more beautiful than me.

The problem is my husband was mentioning her name in his dream last night. While mentioning her name I heard him telling her that he loves her so much but he wants to go home first.

Now this has puzzled me. Could it be that these people are ch€ating on me or my husband is just admiring my beautiful friend? Please help me interpret this dream.

03/05/2024

Good morning ma'am
Please hide my ID, I have been dating this girl from Edo state and I'm from Adamawa state, I am into Aluminum installation. When we meet last year around October, I thought she's the one for me because she's jovia, good adviser and friendly. That's the reason why I meet her Mom so her family will know me but ever since then, she always give me conditions whenever I ask her anything. The worst of it is that she told me to go and open provision shop of worth 200k and stop doing my aluminum work because she think that's better, she told me to leave my uncompleted project and give her 2 million to open a chemist shop which I oblige because my mind did not tell me to go on it, I was planning to marry her but she told me I must open shop for her first before talking about marriage otherwise I should find my way. The pressure is too much and I am planning to break-up with her because I am seeing it as a red flag. What should I do? Please ma I need advise because I am confused, she's 24 and I am 27. Thank you ma

02/05/2024

Good morning ma'am,am not from Adamawa but I need ur help. I appreciate you for providing this platform for us to pour out our hearts and get advice. Here is my story, true life story, not arrangee. I need advice pls.

I have been dating my man for about 8 year and we are planning to get married in September . We have done introduction in March. Since April my man’s mum has been down with kidney prob and doctor said she needs a kidney transplant. My man wants me to donate one of my kidneys. Doctor has already checked me and it matched hers. My husband to be said if I give her mum my kidney the money he would have spent on paying a donor will be used for our trad and white wedding, and also his family promised to give my mum a two-bedroom apartment, free of charge for life, she won’t be paying rent.

I have told my family and they are all against it. But I have come a long way with my man, 8 years is not beans , and I love my mother inlaw to be because she is caring although her last born, girl, is a 300L student in the university. My family is saying they should use the kidney of her last born, but my husband said she is just 21, she is too small to donate kidney. I am so tired and confused right now. I don’t know what to do? Should I donate my kidney to my guy’s mum or not?

01/05/2024

GOVERNOR FINTIRI RETURNS

Governor Ahmadu Umaru Fintiri Wednesday returns to the state capital Yola ,after performing Umrah rites in the kingdom of Saudi Arabia 🇸🇦.

Welcome back Mr fresh Air 💥

30/04/2024

Please! Please hide my ID ma. I am one of the men dating a lazy lady. We aren't married yet but she's more like a fiance.

This girl only loves to eat but not to cook, or clean up around. In other words she wants to eat what others have cooked. When she comes for visit which is most often we can stay hungry, hey there is food stuff in the fridge , if the maid isn't around.. when she gets hungry she will just go and grab something to eat that's already made..

If by some miracle she cooks, don't expect her to do the dishes. They can stay all weekend. If you leave her in the bedroom you will find her still in blankets and the house is not cleaned.

Even yesterday I left her home I think she will do the needful, no way . I only find the house clean because the maid came around but I will find her in bed, not bathed with plates on the floor.

Some may wonder why I still date this lazy and unhygienic woman and why am planning on marrying her. Answer is simple; she very beautiful, kind, respectful and humble. My challenge now is how can I transform her from a lazy girl into a real house wife material? Your advice in this regard will be appreciated

29/04/2024

Good morning ma. please post for me nd hide my id.plz notify me wen posted...there is this Guy my female friend met last year, the guy is from our village because the girl is the same village with me..the girl nd boy start talking .after some months the guy add me on Facebook dat last year we just chat but he ask me to com his house i laugh nd tell him nooo.dat am not coming. I block him on Facebook but sometimes i do see him in the market we always greet nd pass.so this year my female friend start going to the guy house.but she tell me the guy want to date her but she doesn't want it.i ask her y she said nothing.but she do go dere.i no the guy love the girl but i don't no Abt the girl if i may say...so this year i saw the guy we greet normal...
...one day the guy chatted me on WhatsApp i asked him were he got my number from,he said he get it from my friend.nd my friend said she gave my number to him dat she want to bring something from him because in our plaza dere is no network so she can't get my friend only me he will get because i do ave network...so some weeks ago the guy started chatting me dat he loves me .i ask him wot Abt my friend he said my friend is not given him time..dat my friend doesn't care at all ... which is true my friend always said dat she is not given the guy time...dat she doesn’t need the relationship..i am beginning to love the guy but am not showing himooo.. please wot did i do .the guy is very serious abt me.plz remember to hide my id ... should i tell my friend nd start the relationship or should i tell the guy no..my friend says the guy is a good guy . just dat she doesn't need the relationship.

27/04/2024

Pls hide my id , been married for 13 yrs, have 3 kids ,my eldest 13,my phone is free my kids and hubby can access,becoz everyone in the house knows my password,my husband of recent he has finger print on his phone, nobody touches his phone,but for him he can access my chats on Facebook and watsup ,and am okay becoz I've nothing to hide. I vowed to be faithful and raise my kids morally. He has been too secretive to his phone and is eating me up, when I sit and talk to him, he becomes harsh,am d.ying in depr.ession, what should I do?

27/04/2024

Good morning ma, pls post for me. Pls I need advice. I have been friends with this guy for the past 8years and he has been supporting me financially, morally and otherwise. He supported me all through my first degree and he is also supporting my master that is currently ongoing. But am kind of worried because he has never asked me to date him. I even swallowed my pride and told him my feelings, only for him to tell me that I am his sister. Should I wait for him to do the needful or I should take him as a brother and enter into a relationship with any other single dude of my choice because I have two serious guys who are seeking my hand in marriage . Why am I saying all this? I don’t want a situation whereby after I have given my yes to another man, the guy who sponsored me through school would now say I jilted him or I betrayed him. I h@te scandals. Pls what should I do. Pls leave your advice for me in comment section

25/04/2024

Pls hide My Identity and Post For Me.
Please i need serious advise. I know it is my mistake but hear me out. A man came and proposed to me twice and I rejected his proposal because I didn't have full information about his financial status. He was too impatient.

He went ahead and proposed to my younger sister. He didn't know she was my younger sister. My sister accepted him so easily. They went ahead and got married. He only discovered when they came to see my parents for bride price that she's my little sister.
The issue here is the man is a senior accountant in a big company . He also runs private businesses( super market, petrol station and hotel) that earn him multiple profits steadily.

When I ask for money from him he tells me to pass through my younger sister. But when i go to my young sister she will only give me 20k or sometimes 15k. Her husband gives her sometimes 500K from the businesses monthly. She will give my parents 100K and husband's mother 100K too. But to me she's been stingy.

She doesn't know this man was actually mine. He proposed to me first. For him to propose to me first it means he loves me more than her. She's very stingy and uncaring . I am h.urt😥.

Please advise me on what to do. I am tired.

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